AUKG-388 PTA Mom Friend Lesbian - The joy of a woman in her 40's learned through an affair

We've been married for 10 years...My husband has been cheating on me since around the time I stopped caring for our children...He seems to think I haven't noticed, but a woman's instincts are always right in times like this... - I thought about divorce, but I held back until my child became an adult...I had already forgotten the joy of being a woman...